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Facebook Envy

Fews day ago, I read an awesome article at Reader's Digest yg memang awesome gile, entitled "Facebook Envy".

Bila baca article ni memang rase macam terkena batang hidung sendiri je sebab it describe exactly what I used to feel before.Facebook envy ni merupakan sejenis penyakit psikologi, yg mana kita akan jeles dengan certain person yang kita rasa life dia lagi best dengan kita. Hurm dulu-dulu la pernah la jugak rasa macam tu, sebab dulu-dulu macam kurang matang, tak mengenal erti dunia, tapi sekarang dah matang sikit (hikhik sikit je) so bila fikir-fikir balik tak perlu la semua tu.

Bila tengok orang tu beribu-ribu friend dia, kita pun sibukla nak ada ramai kawan jugak. Pastu manusia dari ceruk mana pun kita request je, asalkan friend configuration kita ramai, baru "Market" la katekan..Tapi sekarang ni I dah jemu dah nak add orang,kalau orang request pun fikir dua tiga kali jugakla, sebab bukan ape, kawan ade ramai mana pun, last-last dengan orang yang sama jugak kita nak chat, komen, kan? Kalau yg betul-betul nak jadi kawan tu okayla, yang menyakitkan hati bila dia add kita semata-mata untuk menambahkan friend configuration dia. Apakah?

Sebenarnya seronok atau tidak life kita, kita yang tentukan. I learn that from my current school. Ramai orang kata tak seronok la school @18, macam budak kecik je kene pakai baju sekolah la, peraturan ketat la, macam-macam. Tapi 'kata orang' tak semestinya sama dengan selera kita, kan?Kalau hidup asyik nak merungut je, letak la dekat sekolah terhebat di dunia pun, tetap perkara sama akan jadi. Puncanya? Sebab kita tak cuba nak enjoy apa yang ada dalam hidup kita ni.

Kadang-kadang hidup kita dihabiskan dengan merungut dan berharap.. "Kalaula family aku kaya macam dia kan best. Nak dapat ape pun senang.." Selalu dengar kan ayat ni?Kaya bukan syarat untuk bahagia, senang pada kebendaan bukan bermakna senang pada kerohanian.
"The only thing money gives you is the freedom of not worrying about money."
 Alright, that's all for now, au revoir!

Comments

Feeq said…
haha..pek skali atas hidung :)
tp klu pompan yg add. kita apprve je..keh3
sofwahayati said…
amboi tak mudah ye. HAHA
Feeq said…
haha..yg lawa2 je pulak tu..he3
mmg x mudah..just kilik je :)
sofwahayati said…
HAHA ingat ni agensi cari jodoh ke ape? :P
taw la diminati ramai. haha (:

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