Actually I am a lil bit busy on weekdays, well, I have school to care about and lots of other things that quiet important. So, the intention untuk blogging kene put aside for a while but then an anonymous actualy asking me when to update my blog so I was compelled to do so.(terharu,ade jugak yg berminat. hehe). Well, on this very entry we will switch into a bit realistic topic, HOW DO WE LIVE ENTHUSIASTICALLY?
Most of ppl thought of having an awesome life is part of the fate. For them, only chosen ppl who destinied to have a wonderful life while the others are not that lucky. They keep sighing and and watching other ppl enjoying their life so much while hoping that the same thing will actually granted to them and sadly they'll end up their life in despair without being conscious that they can have a great day too!
Happiness is periodical, sometimes we felt like we're at the top of the world but sometimes problem takes us to the end of it. So the matter is it wasnt about how frequent we are feeling happy but its about how grateful we are about things around us which sometimes we dont even realize its existence gives us convenience and comfortablity on pursuing life.
So,HOW DO WE LIVE ENTHUSIASTICALLY?(beriye gile sampai ulang tajuk dua kali).
#1. BE A SATISFIER
We might cannot have all our desired one but everything is happen for reasons.Being a satisfier doenst mean that we accept every ketentuan dengan pasrah without putting any effort in order to make it a better thing. let say la we fail in an exam,(hey its cool to fail,its a mother of success kan?) its not that we're just qanaah and let everything flow by fates,in fact there's a few fates that is convertible(which called,qada' muallaq) so we need to understand a satisfication concept, which is to feel great on everything around us even though that it is the least liked one and try to enjoy them into the fullest and in the mean time,try to make the world is a better place and put aside those negative-minded thinking bcause they're just gonna bring us down instead. Plus, there's are always ppl that were less lucky than we do,they might didnt get the same chance that we did, so ALWAYS be GRATEFUL.
Kadang-kadang memang kita fikir, ouhh besnye kalau ada itu,ini, memanglah, tak salah pun, tapi it just making us less grateful,kan?So the point is we MUST be great of ourselve even though we're just a modest one,but having lots of great toys not necessarily gonna cheer us up.
#2. SMILE,CHEER AND LAUGH!
Experts says that laughing is the best therapy for reducing the stress,that's why I laugh everyday. Honestly, when we laugh everyday, it just make everything better, trust me, it did happening to me. Smiling also an activity that will cheer us and others too. So no matter how hard it is, just smile and think of the good times of ur life and do smile, because its a form of sedekah, right? Another tip to survive at any situation is to cheer up and enjoy the flow sebab kalau kita asyik merungut je, sampai bila life kita tak cool,kan?
I used to hate schooling at the age of 18, tapi takkanla nak merana meratap nasib je, its better I try to enjoy everything in my life,and I don't want to live in mumble and dissapointment. Then I found out everything here is waaaayyyyyyy cooler than in secondary school, ALHAMDULILLAH!
#3 OPTIMIST
The Oxford English Dictionary defines optimism as having "hopefulness and confidence about the future or successful outcome of something; a tendency to take a favourable or hopeful view." The word is originally derived from the Latin optimum, meaning "best." Unlike optimal thinking,which is realistic in nature, being optimistic, in the typical sense of the word, ultimately means one expects the best possible outcome from any given situation. -wiki's definition-
Dreams have no borders,so there's is some people who killed those dreams because of the voices saying that it is impossible. Most of people fail up not because they're failing to dream and work out that dream.
#4 BE YOURSELF
Now,why do I capitalize those words, it's because that's the most crucial part,it's becoming ourselves and not being influenced by foreign sources that destroy our own identity. I gave you one example, when we think that someone is cool, then we started to be like them,hoping that we'll look great too,but it turn out to be excessive.
Another bad things yg commonly happen,is when we are too conscious of becoming a trendy person, yela, taknakla orang kata kita ni outdated..Orang pakai macam tu, macam tu lah kita pakai, orang cakap, so macam tu lah kita, and then we'll end up become a typical one. I'm not saying its bad to be a typical person, its just a person like us is foundable,and we are easily forgotten and surely,we doesnt want to be like that. Its okay to be different, because that's the way we're gonna be remembered,right?
So whatever it is,listen to your heart's words and ignore those people whose saying you are outdated.
I guess that's all, till we meet on the next post,my gojes readers... :)
Most of ppl thought of having an awesome life is part of the fate. For them, only chosen ppl who destinied to have a wonderful life while the others are not that lucky. They keep sighing and and watching other ppl enjoying their life so much while hoping that the same thing will actually granted to them and sadly they'll end up their life in despair without being conscious that they can have a great day too!
Happiness is periodical, sometimes we felt like we're at the top of the world but sometimes problem takes us to the end of it. So the matter is it wasnt about how frequent we are feeling happy but its about how grateful we are about things around us which sometimes we dont even realize its existence gives us convenience and comfortablity on pursuing life.
So,HOW DO WE LIVE ENTHUSIASTICALLY?(beriye gile sampai ulang tajuk dua kali).
#1. BE A SATISFIER
We might cannot have all our desired one but everything is happen for reasons.Being a satisfier doenst mean that we accept every ketentuan dengan pasrah without putting any effort in order to make it a better thing. let say la we fail in an exam,(hey its cool to fail,its a mother of success kan?) its not that we're just qanaah and let everything flow by fates,in fact there's a few fates that is convertible(which called,qada' muallaq) so we need to understand a satisfication concept, which is to feel great on everything around us even though that it is the least liked one and try to enjoy them into the fullest and in the mean time,try to make the world is a better place and put aside those negative-minded thinking bcause they're just gonna bring us down instead. Plus, there's are always ppl that were less lucky than we do,they might didnt get the same chance that we did, so ALWAYS be GRATEFUL.
Kadang-kadang memang kita fikir, ouhh besnye kalau ada itu,ini, memanglah, tak salah pun, tapi it just making us less grateful,kan?So the point is we MUST be great of ourselve even though we're just a modest one,but having lots of great toys not necessarily gonna cheer us up.
#2. SMILE,CHEER AND LAUGH!
Experts says that laughing is the best therapy for reducing the stress,that's why I laugh everyday. Honestly, when we laugh everyday, it just make everything better, trust me, it did happening to me. Smiling also an activity that will cheer us and others too. So no matter how hard it is, just smile and think of the good times of ur life and do smile, because its a form of sedekah, right? Another tip to survive at any situation is to cheer up and enjoy the flow sebab kalau kita asyik merungut je, sampai bila life kita tak cool,kan?
I used to hate schooling at the age of 18, tapi takkanla nak merana meratap nasib je, its better I try to enjoy everything in my life,and I don't want to live in mumble and dissapointment. Then I found out everything here is waaaayyyyyyy cooler than in secondary school, ALHAMDULILLAH!
#3 OPTIMIST
The Oxford English Dictionary defines optimism as having "hopefulness and confidence about the future or successful outcome of something; a tendency to take a favourable or hopeful view." The word is originally derived from the Latin optimum, meaning "best." Unlike optimal thinking,which is realistic in nature, being optimistic, in the typical sense of the word, ultimately means one expects the best possible outcome from any given situation. -wiki's definition-
Dreams have no borders,so there's is some people who killed those dreams because of the voices saying that it is impossible. Most of people fail up not because they're failing to dream and work out that dream.
#4 BE YOURSELF
Now,why do I capitalize those words, it's because that's the most crucial part,it's becoming ourselves and not being influenced by foreign sources that destroy our own identity. I gave you one example, when we think that someone is cool, then we started to be like them,hoping that we'll look great too,but it turn out to be excessive.
Another bad things yg commonly happen,is when we are too conscious of becoming a trendy person, yela, taknakla orang kata kita ni outdated..Orang pakai macam tu, macam tu lah kita pakai, orang cakap, so macam tu lah kita, and then we'll end up become a typical one. I'm not saying its bad to be a typical person, its just a person like us is foundable,and we are easily forgotten and surely,we doesnt want to be like that. Its okay to be different, because that's the way we're gonna be remembered,right?
So whatever it is,listen to your heart's words and ignore those people whose saying you are outdated.
I guess that's all, till we meet on the next post,my gojes readers... :)
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